I have always struggled with motivation....or at least struggled with it for the last 5 years or so. I find it hard to motivate myself to do things around the house or at work. It's hard to motivate me to "get out and do things" sometimes. And all of this frustrates me to no end. I know that part of this lack of motivation is due to my ongoing battle with depression, but lately I don't know why I can't get motivated. I don't feel depressed, but I can't seem to get myself motivated to get things done. This applies to things I want to do at work and at home. I just feel lazy. I know that my lack of motivation is very frustrating to Mick, and I hate that he has to deal with it by helping out more around the house. I don't know what I would do without him.
For example, right now I have a list of things (in my head) I want to get done before the new baby comes (I know I have awhile), but that's as far as I've gotten on my "to do" list. It is so frustrating! I know that I need to do them, but I always come up with an excuse to not do anything.....mostly my excuse is "i'm tired". UGH!
So I'm going to try to do better in February. I'm going to try to check off some of the things on my "to do" list and get ready for this baby! Does anyone else ever feel this way?
4 years ago
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Alexis- I know there are probably things you have to get done before the baby, but you also have to go easier on yourself and listen to your body! Maybe you just really need to rest and take it easy-- after all, you do work full time and at least do some part of the house-keeping and caring for a 3 yr. old! Maybe that nesting urge will eventually kick in and help you out! Love ya!
I totally agree with Heather! Sounds like classic pregnancy to me. All I wanted to do the first 32 weeks of my pregnancy was lay around and relax with my feet up. Then when I went on bedrest I wasn't interested in laying around any more ... go figure! Seriously, give yourself a break. Write a list - a short one 3 things that you want to get done and work from there. Or go out and eat some good mexican food - that always made me feel better/happier! Miss you guys!
YES!!! i know exactly how you feel. i am also very bad at motivating myself to get things done. now, my excuse is that nash takes up most of my time. and i do agree with heather and lindsey about the pregnancy taking a toll on your energy. i'm sure that makes a difference. anyway, i'm glad to know i'm not the only mom/wife out there that has motivation problems. you'll get it done and be okay. love you critter!
p.s. do you want any maternity clothes?
Don't be so hard on yourself. You have an extremely demanding job, a 3 year old, and a husband...all of which demand a lot of your time. Heck, I live alone and can't seem to motivate myself to do anything! Just think, in less than a year, you will be back in Dallas and will have mimi and Aunt Brooke to help out. And we can't wait!!! I love you!
-Brooke
Alexis-its good to know that we are all in the same boat! Everyone has days/weeks/months like that. Especially being pregnant!
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